Almost weekly someone sends us a story about an elder who has accomplished some amazing feat that seems to defy our understanding of aging. Have you heard about the 92-year-old body builder who may be the strongest man on earth? What about the 86-year-old woman who continues to work as a mail carrier? Do you think you could interview the 77-year-old gymnast whose video has gone viral? While we appreciate these gestures, we have deliberately and continuously passed on opportunities to contact or interview these "amazing" seniors. We too are amazed and encouraged by their accomplishments, but our mission is to celebrate a different kind of amazing.
Meet Dale Leon Wood. Family and friends gathered yesterday (1/22/2015) to celebrate his life and pay tribute. Dale, 88, died at home after a valiant bought with cancer surrounding my family in the tiny Ohio village of Ashley (population 1344) where the median household income is $38,239. Dale will be missed by his wife, four children, fourteen grandchildren and thirty-six great grandchildren. He served in both the United States Navy & Army and then worked as a machinist for almost thirty years prior to retirement. He enjoyed fishing, camping, boating and poker. He lived long enough to celebrate one last Christmas with his family and friends and also to see his Ohio State Buckeyes win the National Championship. Just an average-Joe, right? WRONG!!!
There is nothing average about a man who defended his country in both WWII (United States Navy from 1943-1947) and then again during the Korean Conflict (United States Army from 1948-1952) by choice. There is nothing average about a man who stayed happily married to the same woman for 61 years while protecting and honoring her with each passing year. There is nothing average about a man who is truly all about family and community. There is nothing average about a man who makes each one of his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren feel like they are the one and only apple of his eye. There is nothing average about a man who knows the value of a handshake, a promise, a joke, and a smile. There is nothing average about a man who on his death bed can still offer words of love and encouragement despite agonizing pain and the knowledge of a rapidly approaching departure. In fact, if Dale Wood was average, then we obviously need more average!
Please send us more amazing (average) men just like Dale Leon Wood. Thank you for sharing him with us! We already miss him.
The Senior Agenda Family