Many of the seniors interviewed on Senior Agenda have reported a fading sense of purpose. They often share feelings of frustration and disconnectedness. Some have said they feel forgotten while others report feeling useless or invisible. They aren’t alone. An accumulating body of research examining purpose across the lifespan has discovered a pattern indicating that a sense of purpose tends to peak during late adolescence and early adulthood and begins to decline throughout adulthood and then drops sharply through late adulthood.
Why the decline in sense
of purpose? Maybe it’s because we all
know what we want to be when we grow up, but we don’t know what we want to be
after we grow? We assume our “want to
be” will be done once we grow up. But
that just isn’t the way it plays out.
Living a purposeful life
means continuing to participate, learn, experience and share. The truth is many
of us find purpose in the doing and have no desire to rest on what we now know
or what we have already accomplished. Words
like growth, potential and opportunity still apply.
Volunteerism offers a
pathway back to purpose for those feeling secluded or out of touch. It is a wonderful way to stay involved in the
community, make new friends, choose meaningful work, share expertise, stay
active and help others. In addition to
all that, it feels good and it’s fun. It
is well-documented that volunteering has mental and physical health benefits
for the volunteer. According to the
Corporation for National and Community Services, volunteers experience greater
life satisfaction, an increased sense of accomplishment, more stress resilience
and lower rates of depression. The
National Institute on Aging has reported that volunteering lowers age-related
health problems and promotes longevity.
Being a volunteer helps keep the brain and the body active and it
provides a sense of purpose along the way.
Wondering where to sign
up? Contact a community agency doing
work that matters to you from boys and girls clubs to animal shelters to
religious organizations. Don’t forget
about your local schools. They are often
looking for volunteers to read to the children and more. You might also consider your local assisted
living community, senior center, hospice, or nursing home. Seniors helping seniors is a beautiful thing!
Remember to listen to
Senior Agenda for local opportunities thru- out the year. As I often say on the radio, you don’t have
to go it alone.
